A Woman Needs No Country, As a Woman My Country is the Whole World

I am a very patriotic person. I act like a man in my speedy decisions. However as a woman, I am all mushy with a marshmallow heart. Hence it took me awhile to 'digest' this quote from Virginia Wolfe. Only when I turn on the 'woman' mode could I fully delve into the profound meaning of being a woman with the whole world as her country. ❤️ As this Sue Tiong's writing, expect a pretty long read ahead. 🙏🏻😘 This is my take on this. My own interpretation and not what Virginia Wolfe meant. ❤️ As a woman, especially as a mature woman, and risking me appearing like a feminist, a woman just want the whole world to just get along, be at peace, loving and caring, no more war, husbands come home to a warm home with food served on the table, kids and children grow up in a very conducive environment where they get basic education, basic hygiene, all the basic necessities, parents coexist in harmony, I didn't say stay together or don't divorce sometimes separation is inevitable but we can still be civil about it.
As a Woman My Country is the Whole World
Don't get me started on the negatives and the bad and ugly of this world. Isn't it too much already?
Instead let me bring your attention to my own experience where it doesn't matter which country or which flag you fly, ultimately everyone is the same. Some beg to differ saying we don't operate the same way we have different cultures we speak different languages. Yes you are right. And when you choose to see that humans are the same, you are right too. I may be an anomaly but hear me out, bear with me as I type this out. I grew up as the only girl of Chinese descent in my class for a whole 6 years in the same school. My playmates are of different tones of brown and yellow and yet we still play (and cry and made up almost immediately). When I scraped my knee I bleed, so did the other kids. Our blood is red. It's the same. And now fast forward 30 years my son is playing with a group of strangers in the playground of various ethnicities. He doesn't choose their colour he doesn't cringe at someone different than him. He's emulating me at the tender age of 4. Bless him. I plan to tell him to stay that way for as long as possible and be aware other people may judge us or react differently but that doesn't meant you have to react the same way.
Wishing everyone the opportunity to gain higher awareness deep within
As a mother and a woman, I truly believe I don't need to be divided or take sides on which country is better than the other. The world is truly one big country. The universe is one big home for all of us. *Peace* #SueTiong

JT Foxx, The Man Who Changes The World, One Country at a Time

Love him or hate him, JT Foxx is the man I truly believe is changing the world, one country at a time.
WIth JT Foxx and 50 Cent International Artiste and Rapper, Successful Businessman
Impossible? I don't think so. You see, with JT Foxx, behind him are thousands of the strongest individuals that ever lived in this day and age who have the power to move the world. He's not alone. He is the living example of successful power of networking and leveraging. Your net worth is your network.  Above all, the biggest asset that anyone can have besides property and money is the MIND. And JT has one of the biggest minds ahead of his time and boy it has been a really eye opening ride in my journey with JT Foxx.
My most recent pix with World's No 1 Wealth Coach JT Foxx
Now who is this JT Foxx guy anyway? JT Foxx, World's No 1 Wealth Coach, Owner of over 50 businesses around the world, the next Billionaire, owner of one of the largest business networks of active entrepreneurs and business owners in the world, a guy with a big heart and a visionary.
Sue Tiong and hubby CS LEE with JT Foxx
Best of all, he's my coach. And he's not the only coach. He understands the power of leveraging and under the JT Foxx Org, there are many business coaches who are specialists and experts in their respective fields ranging from all aspects of your business from systems to structure, to SOP, to marketing and branding and of course sales and profit.
Dec 2, 2016, 2 days before JT's birthday
You see, this guy knows the only forward is to move together.
The Power of Teamwork and Leveraging. Pic Courtesy: Pixabay
"There is plenty of room up here", he always said, he genuinely wishes for more entrepreneurs and businesses to grow to their fullest potential.
An industry cannot grow without a WIN WIN strategy. Pic Courtesy: Pixabay
Gone are the days of scarcity where businesses hide trade secrets and their ultimate aim is to kill off their competitors by going head to head. Enough of that. JT Foxx saw through that and through him, thousands of businesses are started and grown globally! Leveraging on a global scale.
Together we are stronger. Pic Courtesy: Pixabay
I see it this way, cross pollination always produces better crops. The way JT does it is for all resources to be leveraged on and together the businesses in the same industry will grow. By changing one industry at a time, it not only increases the income and the economy, it changes the entire socioeconomic landscape of the entire nation. Talk about ripple effects!
JT is featured in top magazines in South Africa
SUE TiONG'S JOURNEY WITH JT FOXX's #FAMILYFIRST Personally, my first one-to-one session with JT was on his birthday Dec 4, 2015.  I first saw him on stage on October 2015 sharing the stage with Robert Kiyosaki. The reason I signed up for his workshop was because my husband's business was taking him away from family time and I was not very happy about it.  We officially became coaching students on Dec 4, 2015 and have never looked back. Our businesses have grown to great heights that we would not even have dared to dream should it not be for JT Foxx's mind-changing coaching.
Pic Courtesy: Pixabay
When we were still thinking about single digit millions back then, now we are talking about multi-million dollar deals across the globe. The numbers and the digits are just jumping off the screen and we are having fun with them. Say what you want about the man but I tell you this, if not for JT Foxx, both my husband and I would not even have achieved this much with our businesses in such a short span of time.
Pic Courtesy: Pixabay
BEING SELF-EMPLOYED vs A TRUE BUSINESS OWNER When I first saw JT speak on stage, the line that got me was when JT said: "You have to work on your business, NOT In your business". You spend 90% of your time doing the 10% of the things that really matters that makes you money in your business.
Now that is the essence of a business owner.  If we slog and work hard and trade time for money, we are pretty much still an employee, albeit self-employed. And THE FIVE PEOPLE YOU SPEND THE MOST TIME WITH matters, that is why he surrounds himself with successful people like Sir Richard Branson. To be a true business owner, we have to not only learn to let go, but ensure that a system is in place for the business to run itself in our absence. That is how JT Foxx can own over 50 companies from all over the world. He walks the talk and he practices what he preaches.
My Journey with JT Foxx
There are no regrets for having invested my time and effort into my business and choosing to stay loyal to the JT Foxx network. The man himself is the real deal. PARTNER OR SPOUSE "PROBLEM" What if your spouse doesn't agree to it? I dragged my husband along and the rest they say, is history. Now my husband's business has also grown exponentially and my businesses are simply off the roof, with new businesses and new ventures and collaborations happening as I am typing this. We never dared to dream in multi-million dollar currencies before, we are truly grateful for the global business network that JT Foxx has built for us to leverage and grow. All these are happening internationally, yes, our businesses are growing, on a global scale.
Sue Tiong, Global Speaker, International Business Strategist, Business Coach and Serial Entrepreneur
Before we met JT Foxx, we thought we will be comfortable with only 'enough' and stay local. After we met JT Foxx, we owe it to the world to push ourselves to our highest potential and grow our businesses to its maximum capacity.
Sue Tiong and JT Foxx on stage
What have Sue Tiong gained from JT Foxx? (If That is Still Not Obvious by Now) I am grateful for the branding opportunities JT has provided us with time to speak on global stages. I have spoken on stage in front of 3000 people and shared the stage with Randi Zuckerberg and Nelson Mandela's grandson, Olympic Gold medalists, celebrities and powerful multi-millionaires and tycoons.
Sue Tiong with Randi Zuckerberg, sister to Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook
Never in my wildest dream I would have thought my speech would get a standing ovation from over a thousand people in my journey to be a global speaker.
Sue speaking at Tycoons of Wealth
I am the proud representative from Malaysia to speak at the Tycoons of Wealth in South Africa. The different countries and cultures are just coming together to unite under one organisation and that in itself is just amazing, thank you JT Foxx for bridging the gap where business owners and entrepreneurs around the world overlook their differences to collaborate and in turn promoting world peace. I hereby nominate JT to win the Nobel Peace Prize for such an exemplary piece of work! BRUSHING SHOULDERS WITH THE STARS - 50 Cent and JOHN TRAVOLTA! (gasp)
My idol John Travolta and JT Foxx World's No 1 Wealth Coach
One of my most memorable moments was when John Travolta spoke to me when a star-struck me took a picture with him. I honestly forgot what he said because it felt so surreal. Thanks to JT Foxx for sharing the stage with us and for sportingly inviting John Travolta to sing a duet with the female audience. Man, that was a duet to remember.
JT Foxx's Global Network of Strong Business Owners
... BUT MY KIDS ARE STILL SMALL (OR BIG OR STILL AT HOME) Now that is one excuse which I was also guilty of at one time.
Sue Tiong and her babies posing with JT Foxx, World's No 1 Wealth Coach
I used my children as an excuse to not take much action until my coach shook me and said Children Should be the REASON you work hard, NOT an excuse for inaction. Thank you JT Foxx for bringing Coach Cherie Eilertsen into my life. Thank you for the many coaches Les Evans, Joey Falcone, Reggie Bates, Kevin France, to name a few whom I have had the privilege of being coached by. Each and every piece of advice was taken and implemented to great results in my businesses. The ripple effect is endless! All it takes is just a single person to change your life.
Clockwise from top Left: With the US President's former right hand man, George Ross, CELEBRITY RAPPER and businessman 50 Cent and President of High Point University, Nido Qubein
And for Sue Tiong, that person is JT Foxx. With Gratitude, Sue Tiong, CS Lee (Sue's hubby) and our two little ones and many others touched by us. Results Don't Lie. We are living the results each and every day. Thank you JT Foxx.
From left to right: Sue's husband CS Lee, JT Foxx world's no 1 Wealth Coach, Sue Tiong, Damien Elston CEO OF JT FOXX ORG
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Sue Tiong on SABC NEWS LIVE on national TV speaking about the importance of branding for businesses to go global

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Selling is Dirty?

I used to think that Money is dirty. Selling is dirty. Sales is dirty. However when I am the one giving money, Money that I give becomes okay, I am helping the person who sells to me and sales especially when I am the buyer makes it alright especially when I buy it. I even felt guilty if I keep my money and I just felt uncomfortable with money. Back then, for me, it was a necessity but nothing more than that.
What is your relationship with money? How do you feel about money?
Now, I feel more comfortable with money.  I am charging more now and I don't cringe when I issue an invoice and I was told I charge too much. If I am worth it, then I am worth the money. Been on both ends of the spectrum and it is almost a non-issue now. As for charity, I am doing it now more sparingly albeit more effectively.
Money is just a tool to get material comforts or to get the information/education we subscribe to. It is an exchange that must happen for a transaction to go through and it is as dirty as the person's mind when handling it. It is all in the mind.
I am glad I had a breakthrough with money when I did. I do appreciate the struggles of those who were like me before this. Reach out to me. www.fb.com/suetiong or like my page www.fb.com/suetiongofficial Till then, wishing everyone peace with money.  

Gratitude leads to many blessings including money

Sue Tiong and her coach Cherie Eilertsen #PowerCoachCherie
It has been a wondrous journey in life and business so far and I am really grateful for everyone whom I have met. ❤️Everyone who comes into my life added some value to it be it as a blessing or a lesson, ✍I've had my fair share of teachable moments and have broken through some old programming and beliefs, even more so after I met Coach Cherie Eilertsen some 15 months ago. ❤️I've never looked back since. Thank you #PowerCoachCherie and everyone who touched my life in one way or another. Thanks to her, and also my own determination to make it work, 💜 I have jumped out of the airplane (literally in Nov 2016 from the highest sky dive in the world at 18,000 feet)💛
I realised I have been playing small and safe all along so I did something about it.💙
Cast my doubts aside and took the global stage and now ⭐️I am an international speaker within 6 months of my first ever paid speaking engagement, built a global brand for myself and also for my existing and new clients, suddenly I get international businesses knocking on my door and my greatest wake up call was when my client of five years were "courted" by Frost and Sullivan to win an award,🖤 speaking of business, let's just say I've never dealt with so many spaces in numbers before this, I never thought I'd say this but it's fun to play the numbers game, I've always been a words over numbers person but the steep learning curve as an entrepreneur has actually groomed me to be a very number conscious business owner, $$$ 💛 you know your fire is infectious when you get individual entrepreneurs approaching you for collaboration and even coaching, it was a spin-off from my main consultancy business and now I am a business coach to small and medium businesses and consultant to major corporations. ⭐️All this came along in a whirlwind short half a year and still counting when I let go of my crutch and my excuses by quoting my baby wasn't even 1 years old yet and my Son not even 4 yet. It is so easy to cower and hide behind the veil of motherhood and just don't push my own limits and just "be local".
And then Coach Cherie said "DON'T LET your kids be your excuses, make them YOUR REASONS" and now they are 1 and 4 AND they are just fine AND BEST OF ALL I CAN SHOW TO THEM THEIR MAMA is living her life to the fullest and loving them all the same. ❤️
Deepest gratitude to everyone including the naysayers, haters and critics, each word just make me stronger so thank you. #Gratitude #SueTiong www.meetsuetiong.com

Heart to Heart

I always believe in the power of trusting your heart and trusting that each human being has a good heart despite whatever they do or say or how hard they look on the outside.
The child in your heart holds the key
You see, no matter how a person projects himself/herself, underneath it all, the heart has a little child who usually has fear in his/her heart due to some childhood perception or misunderstanding. I feel so strongly about it that I apply that to business as well. Like how a grumpy customer service personnel hides a heart that was hurt since age 5 after losing a close relative or family member or something someone dear said to a 7-year-old that make him/her believe it is truly wrong to be too happy because that will make people jealous so you should never laugh out loud or even smile. It may seem unimportant because for most people, "what do children know, right?", they will forget it sooner or later. Unfortunately, these seemingly unimportant incidents or even a phrase or belief won't be really forgotten, it is absorbed into the subconscious and affect the entire being and future of this person, it is activated each time a decision is made, on a subconscious level. I am not an expert but I have experienced a shift within myself with a steep learning curve in the past one year in releasing all the 'ghosts of the past' and to release the programming that contains misconceptions of the Truth that has been ingrained in me since I was very young.
It is so natural for most people to let the 'ghosts of the past' reside deep within their subconcious that it has actually became part of who they are and affect their daily life more than they can imagine
For example, my former programming: Up to only recently, I have always believed that Money is Evil. Money is Dirty. You can never be righteous and be rich, not both, you have to be either one. I was so fixed in my belief that I was not even aware it was affecting my very core being and I ended up on the extreme end and ended up being a Robin Hood.
Robin Hood stole, okay I did not steal per se but I feel so guilty whenever I had excess money that I felt like I don't deserve it so that feeling is complicated that way.
I did many work and explored all possible new knowledge I could gain and in seeking the Truth, I managed to be more aware of whatever is going on inside my heart... now I was thinking with my head for so long I ignored what MY HEART FELT. Inside there was a little girl who listened to stories from generations before of how hard it was for her ancestors to make it and live to see their children grow up and for babies to die due to the higher mortality rate back in those days and then she deduced that she should feel ashamed to have survived and lived. And another story of how times were so hard the family was so poor they cannot afford to keep many children and need more boys to work the field that her grandfather had to see his father drown his newborn baby sisters, year after year. She was horrified by the stories and deep down she wanted to stay 'loyal' to the dead grandaunts by staying poor because in a child's heart, rationality does not have a room.  There are many levels to this higher awareness but that is already one huge example of this matter. Pm me on facebook if you would like to talk to me more about this. Back to the matters of the heart, I apply the feeling of good faith and always think the best of people especially when I meet new people whenever I expand my network. You see, not many people are comfortable to meet new people or to explore new places. I know I don't, although I don't show it sometimes. The fear of the unknown and to step out of the familiarity of your comfort zone is daunting even to me. It is with a deep breath and a mantra that I got through that uncomfortable feeling and fear of the unknown: Everyone is good, deep inside, whatever they say or do or how the body language is, the heart is still good, my reaction should be nothing but with compassion and love.
Good things came from all these, I started this social enterprise to train single mothers to build sustainable businesses
Through this mindfulness practice, I am more aware of how irritation creeps up and I make a conscious effort to feel more neutral by tuning in to compassion and love. Believe it or not, it is that simple.  Hard work but simple, says Sue Tiong. That has won me many strong powerful relationships and some 'tough nuts', I crack them with love and sincerity just by watching my heart and not allowing negativity to creep into my heart just by a simple decision.
Is it hard to keep at it? YES. Is it so easy to give up? YES. But I still continue at it and once a grumpy face tries to hide a chuckle, I know LOVE really wins at the end of the day and LOVE always reside in the heart, just covered by so many layers of self-protection from being hurt. We all have some wounds and hurts deep within our hearts that we bury deep inside. Once we acknowledge that we are all the same, relationships will flow more smoothly and true peace really happen from within, not without Love.
Oh yes, Business Relationship is that simple. Heart to heart. If your heart is not at peace, it shows. No one wants to do business with a fidgety person. May everyone find peace within.
~ Sue Tiong
Wishing everyone the opportunity to gain higher awareness deep within
www.meetsuetiong.com So have I gotten rid of my irrational belief, that Money is Evil, before you ask me for money or beg that I share my fortune with you, please view this video to get your answer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYw1wCDXDhM It has been a humbling journey of self-awareness. I have all the healers and amazing support networks that I have the honour to meet and learn from. THANK YOU

WORK HARD TOWARDS YOUR DREAM

To all the women and men out there, YOU are your own greatest enemy who is your harshest critic 🗣and YOU alone have the power to turn on the switch and light up the fire in the belly 🔥to do what it takes to make things happen and go for your dreams. 👶🏻Small children are not excuses, 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦my children are my reasons to push harder to show to them what it takes to make it. 💪🏻Either you have it in you or you decide NOT to tap into your greatness within. ❤️Start believing in yourself today. Today I choose ME and I embrace ME. Don't be afraid to work hard. There is really NO SHORTCUT in life. Easier ways maybe but no shortcut.
If a small town girl from Borneo can make it, so can you. www.meetsuetiong.com

Happy Women’s Day

Happy Women's Day! To all the beautiful women of the world! I may not have met all of you but I know we are more similar than any of us would fully admit! Also a big shoutout to all the confident men out there who support the women in their lives starting from their mother and then their sisters and female relatives, their female friends, their spouse/partner, their daughters, and the list goes on. THANK YOU for not letting the women in your life suffer!

Today is International Women's Day and may we all unite together in sisterhood and support each other!

No one woman is made the same yet our struggles are similar if not the same. Our emotions are the same, mothers feel the pain when another mother is feeling the pain, sisters feel the strain in relationship and bffs just get it and stay true and don't leave your side no matter how ugly your behaviour is for the day.

It is not really rocket science to deduce that WOMEN FOR WOMEN spirit is very much more needed in today's world where disparity and the gap is growing bigger when half of our sisters globally are being left behind due to them being born on the 'wrong side' of the world.

  • Let us lend a voice to all the women who could not enjoy freedom of speech.
  • Let us lend a hand to all the women who are physically confined and rendered helpless.
  • Let us shed some light to all the women who are in the dark and denied basic education.
  • Let us help in anyway we can for women to keep their children safe and sound, for women to have access to basic healthcare, for women to be able to have confidence and trust again in this world, to provide a beacon of hope to the women who felt the future is bleak and of course to all women out there, to let them know being different is beautiful, just the way we are born, no need for excessive and invasive procedures to conform to what the society deem as 'beautiful'.
Spread love, not hate. Happy Women's Day!
A collection of random pictures of the women in my life including my baby girl and her god mother. I love being a woman and I am proud of girl power!  
Happy Women's Day to all females! May your beauty shine inside out and may your heart be filled with peace and joy.
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FOCUS ON THE WRONG THINGS

I have been told I have been focusing on the wrong things earlier this morning. I had my call with my transformational coach Reggie Bates right before I my speech in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia to fellow entrepreneurs and business owners and while my stylist aka make up artist Ambizxien Woo (Joan) has finished applying makeup on my face and was styling my hair, I told Coach Reggie that I am nervous about me feeling under the weather with a cold, strepthroat and mild fever with a nasal voice. He told me this: "You are focusing on the wrong things, Sue. Focus on the audience. Then you won't be nervous. Once you focus on the audience only them matters, it is when you focus on yourself that you get all these thoughts." I paused and thought. He made perfect sense. I then delivered my speech and had the highest closing ever for my own personal record and I am glad I invested in myself and I have a team of supportive coaches from JT Foxx Organization. THANK YOU. I am due to speak at three events in South Africa in the coming week. Intelligent Millionaires Network Gauteng, Johannesburg, SA  Register for FREE now: http://clubs.intelligentmillionairesnetwork.com/Johannesburg/ Intelligent Millionaires Network Durban, SA Register for FREE now: http://clubs.intelligentmillionairesnetwork.com/Durban/ Tycoons of Wealth where over 1800 people will gather. I now have what I need to FOCUS. Here I come again, South Africa. To your beautiful land with beautiful people and beautiful hearts and I smile just at the thought of returning to this beautiful continent. Sincerely, Sue
FOCUS is the KEY

Embracing the Beauty in Imperfection

As I sit here waiting for my next appointment in Bangkok I saw these plants and it triggered a childhood memory. These leaves are naturally shaped like this and I thought naively as a child my mother took the scissors and cut through its leaves everyday. Then in my childish curiosity I began to observe its leaves unfolding from its curled up bud and saw that it naturally has holes in them. I began to wonder why do these leaves have holes in them, that makes them so different from other "whole" leaves. This poignant memory made me realise that the leaves are beautiful, even with the so-called "defects", the holes are what make them unique and they are perfect just as they are. Embrace differences in our lives, see the beauty in each imperfection and see that life is beautiful with its good and bad. We grow in adversity, only in growth can we improve ourselves. #SueTiong

2016 In Review – ACT

If I need to describe 2016 in one word, that word would be ACTION. Only after we act will things happen, hence this picture where I spell out A-C-T as Action Changes Things. It is funny how hesitation stops people from taking the right and sometimes very necessary action towards the right direction. Delaying is only postponing the inevitable. I learned that the hard way.
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Excuses are only a decoy you set for yourself to self-sabotage, to steal away your focus from unleashing your potential to be the greater you that you deserve to be. For me, I used my children as excuses to just not take action as I fear all the possibilities of the greatness that I could achieve, my coach knew what was happening and once my newborn baby girl was 3 months old and we talked again, her words rang true and spoke to my core: "There is much to do, Sue, children are your reason to act, they are NOT your excuses, we have wasted much time now, you have no time to sleep, we can always sleep after we die". I love you so much #PowerCoachCherie Thank you for seeing me for what I could be when I was running away from myself, from the possibility of what my potential could bring me, Thank you for saying the words that I needed to hear and not what I wanted to hear. I am so excited to see how far I can go in 2017, I am so glad I have you by my side Coach Cherie Eilertsen.
Happy New Year 2017 everyone! What are your excuses that are stopping you?www.meetsuetiong.com